Monthly Archives: February 2013
When there’s something we need to let go of, when there’s something we’ve lost or screwed up, or we can’t go back or get back to where we were no matter how hard we try, instead of trying to “get it back,” start New instead. Rather than focusing and obsessing on what was lost, start […]
Stop trying so hard and allow Life to support you. Not to be confused with being lazy or living like a parasite on the backs of others, what this means is to truly LIVE in the support of Life, like flowers living in the support of the Sun.
It is not necessary to try to fit in where we don’t belong. Choose your path, not what others believe is best, and not the pain and unhappiness that has already been. Ask for the courage to release yourself from the fear of being New and the fear of stepping in a New direction. Let […]
Allow yourself to be happy. Just simply allow it. When we’ve lived so long without knowing true happiness, when we’ve lived so long simply being “unhappy,” it’s because there is part of us that is very subtly (or perhaps not so subtly) resisting “happiness.” And if we are Resisting, we can not be Receiving. So […]
Allow the past to be over. Let it go and allow it to be behind you. Don’t look back. Start over and move forward. Allow yourself to be New.
Shadows create illusions. It’s time we stop fumbling around in the Dark and simply turn on the Light.
There is genuine unconditional support, and then there is dysfunctional support which is rooted in feelings of insecurity and a need for seeking validation. It may look like support on the outside, but if it’s coming from a dysfunctional place, it’s the subtle manipulation of “giving to receive.”
Parents do the best job they can in raising their children given what they know based on the Life experience they’ve had. Had they known differently they would have raised us differently.
Feeling unloved, unwanted or unnecessary is an indication that we have fallen into the need for outward validation (that is, validation from others). What we need is a change in perception and to self-validate by choosing to know and Remember that we come from God, and that we are Good and we deserve Good. Whenever […]
The experience of Unhappiness is linked to a belief in “not having what we need.” And not having what we need comes from either not Asking for it or from Resisting it being given to us (in other words, not receiving it). When we’ve lived a pattern of Not Having, it takes courage to be […]